The Friendship Bond
According to The Friendship Bond, the author, Parlee, thinks there are two important building blocks of friendship:
trust and acceptance. The result depends on forty thousand readers’ answers and a theory from social psychologist.
I have a similar opinion with Parlee. Friendship is the important part of life. The bond of friendship needs acceptance,
trust and support.
Friendship always begins with acceptance. The article mentioned a reader‘s answer about friendship,“accepts
me even when he does not totally approve.” It is a common habit of human that we like to communicate with someone
who understands and accepts us. I think it’s necessary that my friends know what I like or hate. In addition,she can accept me even when we have different opinion about something. Not everyone is perfect, so I hope my friend
accepts all of me. Then she becomes my friend, I can try to keep the friendship.
Trust is the most important aspect of friendship. As Parlee states “Trust allows you to open up to another person
and reveal the parts of yourself that are vulnerable.” If the person also accepts me, our friendship will be deeper.
Keeping friendship need trust and honesty. If I told my friend a secret, then the world know the secret tomorrow.
There is no doubt that I was betrayed by my friend, I will end the friendship. As a good friend, she can trust me
and I can give my back.
After my friend accept and trust me, I hope my friend can support me. It does not mean she has to support all
about me that any reasons. I just need she support me when I want do some value things for my life. I hope she
can be there for me when I meet some challenges. I believe everyone feels warm with the sentence “I‘m here for you.” Because of the deep friendship, my friend can gives me her support even when I do not say I need it. I have
braved to face the challenges.
Friendship begins with acceptance. Keeping friendship need trust. A deep friendship depends on support. Friends
play an important role in our life. We can have many friends. However, only a few friends are real friends who
have deep friendship with us. So, we have to save our friendship.
trust and acceptance. The result depends on forty thousand readers’ answers and a theory from social psychologist.
I have a similar opinion with Parlee. Friendship is the important part of life. The bond of friendship needs acceptance,
trust and support.
Friendship always begins with acceptance. The article mentioned a reader‘s answer about friendship,“accepts
me even when he does not totally approve.” It is a common habit of human that we like to communicate with someone
who understands and accepts us. I think it’s necessary that my friends know what I like or hate. In addition,she can accept me even when we have different opinion about something. Not everyone is perfect, so I hope my friend
accepts all of me. Then she becomes my friend, I can try to keep the friendship.
Trust is the most important aspect of friendship. As Parlee states “Trust allows you to open up to another person
and reveal the parts of yourself that are vulnerable.” If the person also accepts me, our friendship will be deeper.
Keeping friendship need trust and honesty. If I told my friend a secret, then the world know the secret tomorrow.
There is no doubt that I was betrayed by my friend, I will end the friendship. As a good friend, she can trust me
and I can give my back.
After my friend accept and trust me, I hope my friend can support me. It does not mean she has to support all
about me that any reasons. I just need she support me when I want do some value things for my life. I hope she
can be there for me when I meet some challenges. I believe everyone feels warm with the sentence “I‘m here for you.” Because of the deep friendship, my friend can gives me her support even when I do not say I need it. I have
braved to face the challenges.
Friendship begins with acceptance. Keeping friendship need trust. A deep friendship depends on support. Friends
play an important role in our life. We can have many friends. However, only a few friends are real friends who
have deep friendship with us. So, we have to save our friendship.